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Matchmaking is about Self-discovery
Matchmaking is discovering what is right for you on all fronts... in
love, in work, in play, in life. There is the perfect partner, the
perfect career, and the perfect plan. In studying matchmaking we
discover who you are and what that means. You will recognize your
ideal on sight in minutes.
The
anxiety that comes with making the right decision will fall away and
the time you spend in making vital decisions about the love of your
life will become instantaneous rather than impulsive. This allows you
to seize the moment rather than later looking back in hindsight
wishing you had taken action.
With the wisdom of Y.O.U., you will acquire a heightened awareness of
what lies in the obvious. All too often we dismiss what stands right
before us. In today's world we are in such a state of information
overload and bombardment that we can't see the forest for the trees.
This means it's very easy to overlook the man of your dreams; the one
that the universe put on this planet for you to connect with. He
essentially gets lost in the chaos of this lifetime's mind chatter.
The Ancient Wisdom of Matchmaking will teach you how to clear the room
so you can see him standing before you.
You
may be asking, "What sets this body of information apart from other
profiling systems? How does this differ from Meyers-Briggs, Littauer
and Jungian theories of personality typing? Where does this intersect
with Carolyn Myss' archetypes and John Gray's Mars Venus analysis? The
answer is simple. Y.O.U. is objectively you upon discovery. Other
typing systems are layers of refinement that clothe and enhance the
body of Y.O.U.
Body Typing is one of five revealing aspects used in the once highly
revered process of Matchmaking. We refer to it as Personal Style. It
is the beginning of a very basic understanding of Y.O.U. There are
seven distinct Styles when identifying men and women. Personal Style
being the most obvious, becomes the most essential in identifying the
ultimate partner. It tells us in objective terms what kind of being we
are dealing with.
If
you were looking at a tree, you may be able to tell at first glance
that it is an Oak tree as opposed to a Willow. If you were looking at
an automobile you may have enough information at first glance to know
that you are looking at a Mustang versus a Corvette. People are no
different. They are as easily distinguishable as are types of trees,
cars, dogs and cats.
There are Seven Personal Styles
Once we educate ourselves and come to know and understand what kind of
vehicle serves as home for our spirit, then we can make decisions that
are more suitable for its optimal growth and in planning its journey.
Refining this part of the process is fun and revealing. Often times
things begin to make sense for the first time in a long time. You
begin to no longer blame yourself or others for past failures but
realize that much of what we fail at is based on signing up for
something that is not in alignment with our Personal Style.
For
example, one would not take a Ferrari on an unpaved mountainous
excursion. It's not that it can't be done but chances are the car will
be in need of great repair at the journey's end and the price that one
will pay to restore it may not be worth it. The same is true for many
human beings. Their personal style simply does not afford them the
luxury of traversing rough terrain
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